This is serious. I just joined Christian Mingle and there is a guy on there who has been blowing me up (AKA sending me lots of "Smiles", emails, etc.) He states he lives in Southern California, is an archeologist, and is actually working on a project to confirm the bible. Apparently he's leading a large research project with a local university. He says that due to issues in the Middle East, he cannot provide his picture on the site. However, he will willing to send me it via email. He's not a spammer, I can assure you. We've sent several emails back and forth. Here is the kicker: He knows my first name and I have not clue how. I asked him and he said he found it on the internet. My username for the site is not one I have ever used before. I contacted the customer service center, they went through all of my mail and profile and said there is no leading information that would allow for someone to find my name. I asked the Indiana Jones guy again and he said he searched my picture. What? Is this even possible? I work from home so I am seriously freaking out here. I would say that I possibly know the guy, but my instincts tell me I don't. His profile was that way the moment he messaged me, which was right after I joined. Please tell me how he could have found me on the web.