Can friends ask questions about sex-life of a married couple? Can people ask questions about first time the married couple had sex knowing that it did happen before the wedding? Can people ask questions about sex-life of the married couple? I Need verses. I have a christian friend that asks question about my sex-life with hubby. She thinks that the person should be an open book. If people asks we should answer - that's her point. She thinks that if i don't want to answer it means I'm ashamed. There is nothing to be ashamed. I think that our bedroom - is a private place where only God can be. I know we did wrong having sex before marriage - We ask God to forgive us... Plus she pointed: "you guys, got married knowing each other for less than a year! " So what?! She says that people can't have secret. Even if they do it will be revealed one day. She is a 23 year old virgin, although in her teens she was having oral sex but she never had a boy-friend. Need verses as a proove for her. That there are boundaries of intimacy.