Need some advice...I recently broke things off with a man I was seeing for 3 months because I didn't feel like it was what I wanted but now I'm wondering if I'm doing the right thing. He is an amazing man who treats me like a queen and is a christian. Problem is he is a lot older than me, divorced and has already raised his kids (the youngest is 20) which is the exact opposite of what I want in a man. And on top of all of that he has a crazy work schedule which is what initiated the breakup. We decided to still be friends and he has been checking on me and still being there for me even though we aren't together, showing me that he really likes and cares for me. I have always had bad luck with men and he is the first man I've met that treats me the way I'm suppose to be treated I just felt letting him know my feelings was the right thing to do and that I shouldn't settle for something I don't really want even if it's with a good person. Lately however I've been wondering if i'm focusing on what I want as oppose to what I need because sometimes the person for you comes in a package you would have never expected and if this is really want God wants for me. I have prayed about it and felt led by the spirit to end things but maybe God just wants us apart for the time being but not forever..I don't know!! Maybe hearing from someone not close to the situation can help...thanks!!