My wife and I have been married just over a year and in general our marriage is doing well. However, one thing is driving me absolutely nuts! Our goal is for her to be able to stay at home and take care of the kids, once we have kids, so her dream was to start her own home business selling a famous brand of cosmetics. I was in full support of her goals. So we saved diligently for six month, and then she quit her full-time job in February to start her business. It is August now, and I haven't seen a dime. Savings is almost depleted. Granted, we were both sick much of February and then we had to move across town to a new place, but still, she's had plenty of time to work on her business. She just doesn't seem to have a fire under her. She hates being pushed - I used to ask her how it was going but that irritates her, so I just try not to ask, even though I feel like this our "our business" and she should feel free to share with me. If we had kids, I'd be completely happy to help with housework, but as it is laundry doesn't get done until I'm out of underwear, and the house is usually slightly on the messy side. WHAT DOES SHE DO ALL DAY? She's typically asleep when I leave for work in the morning at 7:30, and most of the time she's still in her nightgown at lunchtime. She does make meals for me at lunch and dinner, does the shopping, is incredibly frugal with our funds, and helps keep track of our finances. I'd really love to be getting ahead in our finances - if she had worked one more year at her old job we could have gotten most of our debt, other than mortgage, paid off, and could live, albeit frugally, on my income. She gets upset when I try to bring any of this up. In her defence, I know she loves me dearly and is completely faithful. Advice please.