When I checked the forum today, I discovered something shocking: Two people are spying on me (!!!!). I also had a notification about an urgent message (...must be from one of those spies)! Yes, it's those ads, present both here and on lots of other Christian sites. Even the Christian Facebook sites I visit tell me how popular I am: millions of singles can't wait to meet me! I understand the need to use ads to help keep the site operating, but it's bothered me about some of the kinds of ads. I assume you have no control over what ads do show. Is there any reason you choose this particular ad company? Some websites have Christian ads - for colleges, seminaries, etc. I don't know if those ads tend to focus on certain denominations, but it is nice not to have the silly deceptive ads. Have you investigated other ad sources?