a relationship question hi.. Can I get some advices from all of you? I am a Christian (Charismatic), I have a Catholic boyfriend. Currently I am in a dilemma. I am quite active in my church. My dilemma is regarding becoming a cell leader, that my leader asked me to become. In other hand, my boyfriend complained that I do not give time for him to meet. Because we go to our own church on Sunday and sometimes Saturday I have something in the church. And weekdays too, we have meetings and cell group meeting. But I always tried my best to meet him whenever I can. We always meet at least once/twice a week. Now with this issue of becoming a cell leader, my concern is: 1. I do not have that much time to be invested to the cell group itself. 2. I want to concentrate on our future (marriage etc). We have decided to go to Catholic Charismatic Church. Do you think I should take the appointment to be a cell leader? What should I do?