Recently I was asked to prayerfully consider a co-leader position for a women's ministry. Upon doing so the Lord helped me to understand that my fears of failing could be conquered through stepping out in faith and He would provide what I needed to accomplish His will. So I humbly accepted. In my first meeting of going over the curriculum with the leader of the ministry she informed me of a situation that was already going on in the ministry. There was strife with her brother who ran the other part of the ministry and they recently had separated. Because of this some of the people who had been coming had left because of the conflict. This sadden me but the Lord brought Abraham and Lot to my mind and I asked her to read that part of scripture and maybe the Lord would reveal something to her there. Some days had passed and her brother called me to ask me some info on a church plant that I am affiliated with. I found no harm in that but I should have exercised some discernment when he brought up the ministry problem. I indicated minimal knowledge of the prior convo with his sister because I knew this would not help in the healing process. The next day I informed his sister that he had called me and did not engage in detail but simply just wanted her to know. This information caused her to tell me that her brother was planning on ruining her in this ministry and told me some things that he already had done. She apologized for getting me involved in this problem. To make a long story short she feels it necessary to postpone this ministry till some things get resolved. I have not been involved in a situation like this before and my heart is breaking for so many reasons. We are all praying and they are seeking some council from some elders. I couldn't help to break down and cry and pray that we can all learn to make this about our Father and not about us.