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smellycat · 05-29-2007, 05:14 PM

jesus does touch on the subject about moses gave some laws because peoples hearts were hard at that time,or something like that.

NoDoubt · 05-31-2007, 05:30 AM

I have yet to find a good, Christian girl who loves God, but doesn't think all men are evil. It seems like the morally deficient girls are the only ones who will even give me a shot at knowing them.

BlueMark · 05-31-2007, 06:05 AM

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Originally Posted by NoDoubt

I have yet to find a good, Christian girl who loves God, but doesn't think all men are evil. It seems like the morally deficient girls are the only ones who will even give me a shot at knowing them.

I will second that

Rev_Rick · 06-08-2007, 12:24 AM

My wife and I are so different. She does not fit in to the typical Preachers wife. She hates it actually. She has been saved and baptized but sheâ€™s just not doing Christianity like I do or preach it. It is really strenuous on the marriage at times but we are devoted to each other for life.

violet · 06-08-2007, 07:46 AM

NoDoubt and BlueMark, there are so many good, Christian girls out there but they behave differently than girls of the world.
A true Godly girl is less forward and bold than worldly girls.
She may even come across as snobbish but don't be fooled because most of the time that is just shyness and timidity.

Also, I hate to say this but it is not always easy for girls to trust guys.
Prove yourself a genuine Christian and friend first~

Theophilus · 06-08-2007, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by NoDoubt

I have yet to find a good, Christian girl who loves God, but doesn't think all men are evil. It seems like the morally deficient girls are the only ones who will even give me a shot at knowing them.

That's because for the most part they are

A man will walk by 5 or 10 decent women to make contact with one who is attractive in some way.

Guys want to be freinds with the popular girls and the popular girls are those who (as you put) it are moraly deficient.

Sincerely
Cliff

BlueMark · 06-08-2007, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Theophilus

That's because for the most part they are

A man will walk by 5 or 10 decent women to make contact with one who is attractive in some way.

Guys want to be freinds with the popular girls and the popular girls are those who (as you put) it are moraly deficient.

Sincerely
Cliff

Normally i would agree, but for me i like to stop at everyone inbetween to get to know each one as a friend before moving forward to the "attractive one".

God has i think blessed me with the knowledge that its whats on the inside. I have dated all sorts of women. I just like personallity and what their eyes say.

Violet, i always try to prove myself as both before hand. Friendships are more important to me.

JesusReignsForever · 06-09-2007, 12:40 AM

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Originally Posted by violet

NoDoubt and BlueMark, there are so many good, Christian girls out there but they behave differently than girls of the world.

A true Godly girl is less forward and bold than worldly girls.
She may even come across as snobbish but don't be fooled because most of the time that is just shyness and timidity.

Also, I hate to say this but it is not always easy for girls to trust guys.

Prove yourself a genuine Christian and friend first~

Less bold and less forward...I disagree.. There are plenty of good christians ladies out there who have a voice...I just think they are looking for the Pretty One.

avlight · 06-09-2007, 02:47 AM

I have dated both the Christian and the non-Christian single woman. I'll tell you a truth that will freak many people out.

The non-Christian single women treated me a whole lot better.

They accepted me for who I was. They encouraged me in my career path. They were more humble and greatful when I bought them a little something special. They never complained that I did not make enough money. They never tried to 'usurp' the male role in the relationship. They did not try to change and mold me into something else that was not me.

However, of the two that I dated, both of them got to the point of the girl wanting to take the relationship and trying to initiate the relationship to the sexual intercourse realm to which I had to be firm and tell them 'NO" which also caused the end of those relationships.

The christian women. I was never good nor 'spiritual' enough for them. They always tried to get me to forsake my technical related career for a career in sales/marketing/business/finance (it sounded more pristine). I never made enough money for them. Because I loved working with computers and repaired my friends computer many times made me a 'suspect' of one who must dabble in internet pornography at 3 AM 'doing the M' while thinking about them. They wanted to dominate the relationship and tell me what to do, what kind of clothes to wear, what Christian authors I should be reading and what kind of music that better be in my CD player and to discard my best friends because they were not 'spiritual' enough for them even though they are some of the most solid believers I ever met. To them, I was 'guilty' and 'not able to be trusted' simply because I am a man and they bought the common Christian mentality of Christian man as dirtbag and Christian woman as perfected saint.

I couldn't meet their 'expectations' that felt more like 'bondage and stronghold' than any bad habit and I learned later on that God did not want me to exceed their expectations. God just wanted me to lean on Him, take up my cross, and crucify that flesh daily and transform myself by the renewing of the mind.

I know better, and that is why I want and desire the Godly Christian wife who loves me as I am.

BlueMark · 06-09-2007, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by avlight

I have dated both the Christian and the non-Christian single woman. I'll tell you a truth that will freak many people out.

The non-Christian single women treated me a whole lot better.

They accepted me for who I was. They encouraged me in my career path. They were more humble and greatful when I bought them a little something special. They never complained that I did not make enough money. They never tried to 'usurp' the male role in the relationship. They did not try to change and mold me into something else that was not me.

However, of the two that I dated, both of them got to the point of the girl wanting to take the relationship and trying to initiate the relationship to the sexual intercourse realm to which I had to be firm and tell them 'NO" which also caused the end of those relationships.

The christian women. I was never good nor 'spiritual' enough for them. They always tried to get me to forsake my technical related career for a career in sales/marketing/business/finance (it sounded more pristine). I never made enough money for them. Because I loved working with computers and repaired my friends computer many times made me a 'suspect' of one who must dabble in internet pornography at 3 AM 'doing the M' while thinking about them. They wanted to dominate the relationship and tell me what to do, what kind of clothes to wear, what Christian authors I should be reading and what kind of music that better be in my CD player and to discard my best friends because they were not 'spiritual' enough for them even though they are some of the most solid believers I ever met. To them, I was 'guilty' and 'not able to be trusted' simply because I am a man and they bought the common Christian mentality of Christian man as dirtbag and Christian woman as perfected saint.

I couldn't meet their 'expectations' that felt more like 'bondage and stronghold' than any bad habit and I learned later on that God did not want me to exceed their expectations. God just wanted me to lean on Him, take up my cross, and crucify that flesh daily and transform myself by the renewing of the mind.

I know better, and that is why I want and desire the Godly Christian wife who loves me as I am.

You said it alot better than i ever could have!

06-08-2007, 12:24 AM	#14 (permalink)
Rev_Rick Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Southwest Missouri Posts: 358 Blog Entries: 6 Rep Power: 2	My wife and I are so different. She does not fit in to the typical Preachers wife. She hates it actually. She has been saved and baptized but sheâ€™s just not doing Christianity like I do or preach it. It is really strenuous on the marriage at times but we are devoted to each other for life. __________________ *Pastor Rick (just another SINNER!)* "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature." Mark 16:15 "We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God: those who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28

06-08-2007, 07:46 AM	#15 (permalink)
violet Join Date: May 2007 Location: England Posts: 8,175 Blog Entries: 13 Rep Power: 10	NoDoubt and BlueMark, there are so many good, Christian girls out there but they behave differently than girls of the world. A true Godly girl is less forward and bold than worldly girls. She may even come across as snobbish but don't be fooled because most of the time that is just shyness and timidity. Also, I hate to say this but it is not always easy for girls to trust guys. Prove yourself a genuine Christian and friend first~ __________________ Violet Matthew 10:38 ....he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

06-09-2007, 02:47 AM	#19 (permalink)
avlight Senior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: a house Posts: 226 Rep Power: 2	I have dated both the Christian and the non-Christian single woman. I'll tell you a truth that will freak many people out. The non-Christian single women treated me a whole lot better. They accepted me for who I was. They encouraged me in my career path. They were more humble and greatful when I bought them a little something special. They never complained that I did not make enough money. They never tried to 'usurp' the male role in the relationship. They did not try to change and mold me into something else that was not me. However, of the two that I dated, both of them got to the point of the girl wanting to take the relationship and trying to initiate the relationship to the sexual intercourse realm to which I had to be firm and tell them 'NO" which also caused the end of those relationships. The christian women. I was never good nor 'spiritual' enough for them. They always tried to get me to forsake my technical related career for a career in sales/marketing/business/finance (it sounded more pristine). I never made enough money for them. Because I loved working with computers and repaired my friends computer many times made me a 'suspect' of one who must dabble in internet pornography at 3 AM 'doing the M' while thinking about them. They wanted to dominate the relationship and tell me what to do, what kind of clothes to wear, what Christian authors I should be reading and what kind of music that better be in my CD player and to discard my best friends because they were not 'spiritual' enough for them even though they are some of the most solid believers I ever met. To them, I was 'guilty' and 'not able to be trusted' simply because I am a man and they bought the common Christian mentality of Christian man as dirtbag and Christian woman as perfected saint. I couldn't meet their 'expectations' that felt more like 'bondage and stronghold' than any bad habit and I learned later on that God did not want me to exceed their expectations. God just wanted me to lean on Him, take up my cross, and crucify that flesh daily and transform myself by the renewing of the mind. I know better, and that is why I want and desire the Godly Christian wife who loves me as I am. __________________ I have come back The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them. -- Albert Einstein

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05-29-2007, 05:14 PM	#11 (permalink)
smellycat Senior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: uk Posts: 5,577 Rep Power: 7	jesus does touch on the subject about moses gave some laws because peoples hearts were hard at that time,or something like that.

05-31-2007, 05:30 AM	#12 (permalink)
NoDoubt Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Michigan Posts: 93 Rep Power: 2	I have yet to find a good, Christian girl who loves God, but doesn't think all men are evil. It seems like the morally deficient girls are the only ones who will even give me a shot at knowing them.