Trust issue, what should I do? - Page 4

Slyke · 04-01-2008, 09:07 AM

I'm no expert with this type of thing, so please just take what i say as advice, but i would say something along the lines of that you don't care that he did it, you just want to know the truth, and you don't want him to continue doing it.

Also how did you find these sites on his computer? I know a fair bit about computers and i can tell you with good accuracy if this is his fault, or they were put there by someone else, or a virus.

Boanerges · 04-01-2008, 12:30 PM

Sadly it is the nature of men to be visually stimulated and these things are all around us trying to drag us in.

slavetoChrist · 04-01-2008, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Faithwoman

Now that is a great statement. Now remember we cannot change another person, I have learned that the hard way! .. however , I believe a person can change.. heck did we all not change when we accepted Jesus as our saviour.

The slight difficulty I am having in my current relationship is that I believe there are some things that he could work on and change and draw closer to the Lord.. but I just don't see that happening.. it frustrates me to no end.

and yes work change and work together.. amen to that one brother!

Faithwoman

change for a man is a slow process, sister.. lol .. and I assure you that God is not going to use you to confront him about it.. lol

Faithwoman · 04-02-2008, 03:12 AM

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change for a man is a slow process, sister.. lol .. and I assure you that God is not going to use you to confront him about it.. lol
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You are just way too funny!

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Sadly it is the nature of men to be visually stimulated and these things are all around us trying to drag us in.

Isn't that the truth.. even tonight when I was on the net searching for housing for the area I am moving to.. I typed in Craigslist New York and there were a bunch of links.. the 2nd one took me right to a porn site.. I am telling ya.. a word to the wise for the computer snoops.. a person can be led to one of those sites accidentaly..

Faithwoman

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04-01-2008, 09:07 AM	#31 (permalink)
Slyke Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9 Rep Power: 0	I'm no expert with this type of thing, so please just take what i say as advice, but i would say something along the lines of that you don't care that he did it, you just want to know the truth, and you don't want him to continue doing it. Also how did you find these sites on his computer? I know a fair bit about computers and i can tell you with good accuracy if this is his fault, or they were put there by someone else, or a virus.