Okay, this is the same friend I posted earlier about...on asking if I should end the friendship.
He sufers with major depression and anxiety like I do..
But its getting taxing hearing him talk about his gf' issues when she's the one in the wrong...and all he does is talk about how horrible he is..and it makes him out to be the victim...i tell him he should leave her...
But he stays anyway so its like u want to be the victim
..and then, he goes on..almost feminist rants on where it seems like women can do no wrong and he continues to blame himself for why his relationship isnt working out when reality is..
You cant make someone who doesn't want you..love you back..
Despite this, hes still very caring and kind, he even sent me a present and is buying me something on my bday...
No has done that for me..not even my dad..but..idk he can be a bit taxing though...
I feel like I shouldn't give up on him because I also have anxiety and depression but I was never like him though..never that bad.. I didnt paint myself to be a victim..
I'd id just feel so hypocritical to give up on him..despite all the times he was there for me.. ..
When ever hes not in a depressed slump or mood..hes fine.
Also worry like if I atop being his friend he might...you know..
So..uhg..i need guidance..
And I swear if god is calling me to be a nun..im all for it ..bc people are very draining..i love them but I just think I'm not meant for relationships.( platonic or romantic)
He sufers with major depression and anxiety like I do..
But its getting taxing hearing him talk about his gf' issues when she's the one in the wrong...and all he does is talk about how horrible he is..and it makes him out to be the victim...i tell him he should leave her...
But he stays anyway so its like u want to be the victim
..and then, he goes on..almost feminist rants on where it seems like women can do no wrong and he continues to blame himself for why his relationship isnt working out when reality is..
You cant make someone who doesn't want you..love you back..
Despite this, hes still very caring and kind, he even sent me a present and is buying me something on my bday...
No has done that for me..not even my dad..but..idk he can be a bit taxing though...
I feel like I shouldn't give up on him because I also have anxiety and depression but I was never like him though..never that bad.. I didnt paint myself to be a victim..
I'd id just feel so hypocritical to give up on him..despite all the times he was there for me.. ..
When ever hes not in a depressed slump or mood..hes fine.
Also worry like if I atop being his friend he might...you know..
So..uhg..i need guidance..
And I swear if god is calling me to be a nun..im all for it ..bc people are very draining..i love them but I just think I'm not meant for relationships.( platonic or romantic)