Whirlwind

Hey - da_man!!!

We went shopping at the Westfield shopping center!

Boanerges

While we may have varying opinions on this subject we must remember that the bible declares that we are responsible if we make others stumble.

da_man

I have let my kids know they had better never come home with their pants around their ankles like kids do these days. Drives me up the wall.

da_man

But people stumble at different points. What if somebody out there thinks nun outfits are super attractive? Are the nuns to be punished for that?

Boanerges

Well if you want to be practical one should just use modesty and common decency. But a person can of course stretch that into any shape or form they want if they try. There is reasonable and there is provocative.
If you dress in a provocative manner you are responsible for the concequences. If someone has a problem and you are not contributiong unecesarily that you are not.

Whirlwind

True, true...

da_man

I don't mean to be argumentative, but I still feel it is a matter of personal descretion as to what is modest and what isn't. If you grew up in hawaii your whole life you would probably dress differently than people in New York.
I agree some people take it to extremes, but I also think it comes back to what you have always been around.

Boanerges

Well we have to look Jesus isn the eye one day, should that be a consideration?

smellycat

men need more help in these days than women,i,m sad.

Boanerges

Many women are no different than the men with thier problems they are just more discreet.