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Old 07-10-2008, 05:26 PM   #1
 
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Unhappy Do you Admit your Wrongs ????

James 5 : 16
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.


Ok , I have to be honest . I have been one of those so called " private persons " who all my life was afraid to tell any one wrong things I have done . I guess it is because I did tell some one and got nothing but condemnation and then it was thrown up in my face from time to time. Lesson in the school of hard knocks .... learned.

Admitting our wrongs :

1 ....First we must admit our wrongs to God
2.... Then admit our wrongs to ourselves.
3.....Then we admit our wrongs to another person. But, I must caution please make sure it is a person of integrety and honour and some one that you trust and that you know God has instucted you to tell . Otherwise like me that can be devastating.

God invites us to the spiritual discipline of confession. Confession is an act of obedience and is Biblical. It is imperative with a promise of healing.
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pm me dusty if you wanna tell somebody,i will forget in about 3 hrs or so,lol.
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pm me dusty if you wanna tell somebody,i will forget in about 3 hrs or so,lol.
Ha ha .... Michael. Don't have anything at the moment but feel free to PM me . I also will pray with you and forget. .... LOL
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there gone now.forgiven and forgotten.
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Amen ..... Praise the Lord. It's time to do my happy dance. He he

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Yep forgiveness is great. And humbling yourself to show your human weakness can help you connect with those you are trying to reach.
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James 5 : 16
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.


Ok , I have to be honest . I have been one of those so called " private persons " who all my life was afraid to tell any one wrong things I have done . I guess it is because I did tell some one and got nothing but condemnation and then it was thrown up in my face from time to time. Lesson in the school of hard knocks .... learned.

Admitting our wrongs :

1 ....First we must admit our wrongs to God
2.... Then admit our wrongs to ourselves.
3.....Then we admit our wrongs to another person. But, I must caution please make sure it is a person of integrety and honour and some one that you trust and that you know God has instucted you to tell . Otherwise like me that can be devastating.

God invites us to the spiritual discipline of confession. Confession is an act of obedience and is Biblical. It is imperative with a promise of healing.


And some people say the 12 steps didn’t come from the Bible.

Step 4 - We admitted to "God", to "ourselves", and to another "human being", the exact nature of our wrongs

One thing I’ve learned for me is this.
It’s not enough for me to just admit what I did wrong, but to learn why I did it and bring that into the confession as well.
If I learn why I did something wrong, (the exact nature) there is a better chance of me not doing it again.

And yes, in the program, it is recommended to choose the person who will listen to you very carefully.
I know of a woman who confessed her wrongs to her sponsor. Someone who she was suppose to be able to trust. By the time she got home, her husband knew everything.
That caused a lot of trouble for her.
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Good point Dean.....[QUOTE]If I learn why I did something wrong, (the exact nature) there is a better chance of me not doing it again.
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Good question ... but the obvious answer would be Yes since a Christian should be practicing repentance on a daily basis.
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Good question ... but the obvious answer would be Yes since a Christian should be practicing repentance on a daily basis.
Your right about the obvious .... But I have to ask . Does that always happen ? And I guess what I was talking about was also some things that maybe still haunt from you before you were saved that you have not told. Not the little every day stuff.
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