Dating And Relationship! Urgent - Page 2

Boanerges · 04-10-2008, 07:24 PM

While this is an interesting topic the OP hasn't been on site since November of last year.

Loveless Existence · 04-25-2008, 04:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ausgirl

Darling, My advice would be this -
1. Break off the relationship - the bible is very clear about not being unequally yoked - meaning, not joining a relationship with anyone who is not a christian - you may think you are in love with him, but it is not in your est interests to develop a relationship with him.
2. Get yourself with a christian group, you know it's not wrong to mix with non christians -IF you are a strong christian yourself, BUT you need to spend alot of time with christians, stuff rubs off when you're with a group of people, however you want to make sure it's the right kind of stuff - good christian stuff - not wordly stuff.
Surely your college would have a number of chrisitan clubs or whatever, that's the first place to start.
3. Don't dispare over the guy you're seeing now - does he know you're a christian, is he at all interested in finding out more about your religion - perhaps you could remain friendly if he is interested in seeking the truth and who knows what God could have in store for you.
4. Pray, seek out God's wisdom in the situation, you will know in your heart what is right, I believe you already do because you are on here asking us for advice.

The first line clearly says " Break off the relationship? "

Why?

I don't see a reason why a relationship should get ruined over the faith of another, right? Technically speaking i've seen plenty of relationships flourish but they just keep there opinons to themselves about what they believe in.

Right?

Who am I · 04-25-2008, 04:36 AM

2Co 6:14 Be not unequally yoked with unbelievers: for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? or what communion hath light with darkness?

God is pretty clear on this one.

gbemiga · 05-14-2008, 08:58 PM

Why must you enter into any relationship that will separate you from God?
Let your relationship be guided by your desire to do the will of God.

search4christians · 07-05-2008, 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ausgirl

Darling, My advice would be this -
1. Break off the relationship - the bible is very clear about not being unequally yoked - meaning, not joining a relationship with anyone who is not a christian - you may think you are in love with him, but it is not in your est interests to develop a relationship with him.
2. Get yourself with a christian group, you know it's not wrong to mix with non christians -IF you are a strong christian yourself, BUT you need to spend alot of time with christians, stuff rubs off when you're with a group of people, however you want to make sure it's the right kind of stuff - good christian stuff - not wordly stuff.
Surely your college would have a number of chrisitan clubs or whatever, that's the first place to start.
3. Don't dispare over the guy you're seeing now - does he know you're a christian, is he at all interested in finding out more about your religion - perhaps you could remain friendly if he is interested in seeking the truth and who knows what God could have in store for you.
4. Pray, seek out God's wisdom in the situation, you will know in your heart what is right, I believe you already do because you are on here asking us for advice.

You are in a very tough situation here,the best thing to do would to do what ausgirl says

for good and for better the relationship with him has to end!!

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