In love with the unknown - Page 2

SilverStars · 03-09-2007, 12:13 AM

Meeting him is sort of hard since he lives pretty far away from where I do, but do you think if I tell him how my parents feel about the situation it will help any?

mustardseed · 03-09-2007, 02:32 AM

I think you should tell your parents. Being in love with a person you've never met before is neither unreal or unnatural but you just have to be careful. Also, it is also hard to discern whether you really like this person, because some people seem to be nicer online. I mean, they only show one side of themselves. Not that they do it on purpose, but sometimes, people are so stressed in their daily lives that they seek escapism online, and they'll tend to change their image a bit to live a life they can't in reality. I myself feel that it's easier to be nicer to everyone online.

The important thing is, you'll have to meet up with him frequently (preferably with your parents as it's safer) to really get to know this person up close.

Boanerges · 03-09-2007, 01:12 PM

It is most unfortunate that many people don't show who they are to hide evil intentions-use wisdoma and caution until you really know who you are dealing with .

03-09-2007, 12:13 AM	#11 (permalink)
SilverStars Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: AZ Posts: 11 Rep Power: 0	Meeting him is sort of hard since he lives pretty far away from where I do, but do you think if I tell him how my parents feel about the situation it will help any? __________________ If one day you feel like crying... Call me. I don't promise that I will make you laugh, But I can cry with you If one day you want to run away-- Don't be afraid to call me. I don't promise to ask you to stop... But I can run with you If one day you don't want to listen to anyone... Call me. I promise to be there for you. And I promise to be very quiet. I'll be there

03-09-2007, 02:32 AM	#12 (permalink)
mustardseed Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Asia Posts: 397 Rep Power: 3	I think you should tell your parents. Being in love with a person you've never met before is neither unreal or unnatural but you just have to be careful. Also, it is also hard to discern whether you really like this person, because some people seem to be nicer online. I mean, they only show one side of themselves. Not that they do it on purpose, but sometimes, people are so stressed in their daily lives that they seek escapism online, and they'll tend to change their image a bit to live a life they can't in reality. I myself feel that it's easier to be nicer to everyone online. The important thing is, you'll have to meet up with him frequently (preferably with your parents as it's safer) to really get to know this person up close. __________________ God grades on the cross, not the curve.

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03-09-2007, 01:12 PM	#13 (permalink)
Boanerges Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: St Rose LA Posts: 16,681 Blog Entries: 3 Rep Power: 18	It is most unfortunate that many people don't show who they are to hide evil intentions-use wisdoma and caution until you really know who you are dealing with .