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Old 04-19-2008, 01:13 PM   #6
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Originally Posted by smellycat View Post
when at home,it,s always i will do this if you will do that.it doesn,t seem right to me.
My experience has been family treats family worse than they do strangers. I can't understand why.

My understanding is that we should give from the heart so we don't regret or resent our giving.

Maybe when you do things for them you should point out that you expect nothing in return - that you are doing or giving out of love. You never know, setting that example may provoke loving gestures in their hearts. But don't expect a change.
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