Please don't take this in the wrong way, but it appears to me that it is more than righteous indignation. I assume you have prayed a lot about what to do or if further action need be taken. What would Christ do in this situation?
Can you see that moving on spiritually might be better for you and your husband than continuing in fighting? I'm not sure I am explaining it right, but take a look at how it will appear if you won, and everyone turned against her.
I think they already see through her, but hesitate to get involved because it seems to have worked itself out. With your husband resigning on his own, it appears to the congregation that he is admitting his wrongdoing. It is never a good idea to discuss private marriage matters with a person of the opposite sex, or with someone of the same sex for that matter.
But, if you can see yourself just ignoring her emails and judgemental actions and get on with your life of making a stronger marriage, I think you would come out looking a lot better than if you continue in the way you are thinking. Does that make sense? Don't set yourself up to be manipulated by this woman, or force your husband to see another side of you. It would be better for him to see sincere forgiveness and attention to your marriage.
Good luck, honey, I know how hurtful it is. I'll be praying for ya. Bonnie
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