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Ginger · 04-14-2008, 03:25 AM

My husband did confess, repent and is doing his best to repair. He stepped down from his position at church on his own accord.

I forgive him. I forgave her also, but I am struggling with that part once again as she has not repented, but instead lied and slandered me to cover her errors.

I am usually very good at forgiving, but it is very difficult to let go while the situation remains unresolved.

She has been so bold. In an email she said,

. I am still madly in love with the way our Lord chose to work in my life the first weeks in January. ...

..... I will sing Psalm 26 over and over again with joy and confidence in our Lord's plan for me - and pray that the Lord will choose to use me again this way in the future.

What I regret is not seeing the devil's hand in all of this until it was too late. ........ I believe that was the devil's first step through (husband) .........

I also believe the devil got his mitts into (husband) Monday night meeting with (Pastor & friend ) - .........

....... - then I fear the devil may have been holding your tong .......

..... - so the devil had to work fast on Saturday. He planted the seed of falsehood in (husband) and the seeds of anger and apathy in you -

How arrogant is that?

What I don't understand is why the 3 people who know all of this do nothing.

I am just not sure if I am sinning by feeling angry. I think it is righteous anger, but what do I do with it so that I don't sin.

I want to send a letter to SPPRC - I think they should have been informed at the start. I think it is the right thing to do according to Scripture. (Gal 6:1)

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Ginger Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Minnesota Posts: 163 Rep Power: 1	My husband did confess, repent and is doing his best to repair. He stepped down from his position at church on his own accord. I forgive him. I forgave her also, but I am struggling with that part once again as she has not repented, but instead lied and slandered me to cover her errors. I am usually very good at forgiving, but it is very difficult to let go while the situation remains unresolved. She has been so bold. In an email she said, . I am still madly in love with the way our Lord chose to work in my life the first weeks in January. ... ..... I will sing Psalm 26 over and over again with joy and confidence in our Lord's plan for me - and pray that the Lord will choose to use me again this way in the future. What I regret is not seeing the devil's hand in all of this until it was too late. ........ I believe that was the devil's first step through (husband) ......... I also believe the devil got his mitts into (husband) Monday night meeting with (Pastor & friend ) - ......... ....... - then I fear the devil may have been holding your tong ....... ..... - so the devil had to work fast on Saturday. He planted the seed of falsehood in (husband) and the seeds of anger and apathy in you - How arrogant is that? What I don't understand is why the 3 people who know all of this do nothing. I am just not sure if I am sinning by feeling angry. I think it is righteous anger, but what do I do with it so that I don't sin. I want to send a letter to SPPRC - I think they should have been informed at the start. I think it is the right thing to do according to Scripture. (Gal 6:1)