I think the guy deserves to be forgiven. As long as he is sorry and asked God for forgivess, he was forgiven by God, and should be forgiven by you as well, for you made mistakes as well (I saw your other topic) but are now clean. You don't have any idea in the world (and never will) how much temptation a guy is enountered with to look at females in a lustful way. It doesn't even feel wrong at times. I have looked at porn. Several other christians I know have looked at porn evena few on this site have been open about it. It's too easy to do and doesn't take much more than a wandering mind to start getting curious about it. It is hard to keep God on your mind and be doing right ALL the time. Even a girl in short shorts at the gym is almost impossible to ignore. Being the great guy that you say he is, he competely deserves every benefit of the doubt that he has stopped and is not betraying you.
Just ask yourself, what do his intentions read? Is he a humble, broken, faithful guy who wants to be forgiven for what he has done? I might be wrong, but judging by how strong of an individual you have become lately, and what you have said about him, I bet he is a great guy that has every intention to try his best to make it all about God, and your guys' pure relationship.
I'm glad you came on here and asked for advice. Many times people make the mistake of not getting advice and letting problems go untreated. It's very healthy. So keep in touch, and good luck. I'll be praying.
