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Originally Posted by Malissa
It makes me feel as though I'm not good enough for him and that I don't measure up to a simple photo of a girl that he doesn't even know.
I've read that looking onto a woman for lust, as a man would for porn, is committing adultry in his heart. I don't know exactly how it is for other women with the same problem, but to me, it's the same as him running around with other women behind my back. I've told him these things but I still feel the same way.
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But that is more than likely the farthest thing from the truth. And it certainly is not the same thing as cheating on you. In truth society today bombards and over stimulates some basic and core parts of a mans mentality and physiology. Such addictions are common and can be quite difficult to shake.
If he found something that was a problem with you would you want him to reject you or question your love? Or would you want understanding , support and help in overcoming your struggles?