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Old 03-24-2008, 06:17 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Well.......
porn is not a good thing.
It's wrong.
At the same time, the man is human.
He doesn't run around behind your back with other women, right?

Here is the way I see it.
It is an addiction or an illness.

Do you love him, otherwise?

Would you be as devastated if you found out he was addicted to cigarettes or weed?

I am not belittling porn in the least, but from talking to other women, one problem they have is that they feel inferior to the women that are being portrayed.

Talk to him and take it to God in prayer.
If that doesn't work, take a hammer to his pc.
NO!!!!
I'm only kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only God can change a man's heart.

Be there for this man if you love him and talk with him.
Tell him it hurts you and that you want honesty.
If you get angry he will only be fearful of telling you the truth....

Pray.........
Ask him to seek help~
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