One thing that always helps me is to try and see others thru the Masters eyes- He sees one He loves and wants to set free and this is the heart which we must manifest if we are truly going to be His servants. It also helps me if I don't take things so personal- am I accepted by the Master- that is what really counts- am I expressing His love to a wounded soul- that is what really counts- we all have areas that still need healing and in many of those areas are the ones that cause us to have strong reactions- put two of those togeather and you can have more hurt feelings . I know these are but my opinions but here are a few scriptures that teach us the heart of our Lord:
1Pe 3:8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
Rom 12:10 Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;
1Jo 3:23 And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us commandment.
1Jo 4:12 No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.
Eph 4:2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
Eph 4:3 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Heb 10:24 And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:
1Pe 1:22 Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently: