I think this is an interesting topic. Sitting at my keyboard in my nice, plush chair, it's so easy to say, "Yes! I accept any and everyone that comes into my church (or home, or office), regardless of how they look, just at Christ commanded." But, in reality, this is much, much easier said than done. I will absolutely make an effort to greet them, but I'll admit that my initial reaction is, "Wow, why is he/she here?" Is that the right thing to feel? No, but it's the truth. After I get it through my thick skull that we want everyone to attend, it's another story, but I'll admit that it's uncomfortable at first. I even attend a very, very diverse church in terms of races and socio-economic backgrounds.
I do have an honest question, though:
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I don't change my appearance because I want to stand out. I am not comfortable blending in or hiding or pretending to be part of a Country Club Church.
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Banarenth, how do you feel when others, particularly in church, look at you "funny?" Most goths I knew always used to say, "What are you looking at?" and I always wondered why they intentionally made themselves different than others if they didn't want the added attention. Does that make sense?
I've actually been heartened that in recent weeks, many non-traditional looking folks have begun attending our church, more like big ol' gruff biker guys than goths, but it's still awesome to see God at work. One of the members I'm closest to at church is about 6'4", 300+ pounds and a former biker gang member. His testimony is more powerful than any other I've ever heard.