James as a believer in Christ, you are the church!
It is quite important to be in fellowship, not only to build yourself up, but to serve as the Lord has called us to.
I really would advise you to seek out a bible believing fellowship in your local area, I personally would steer clear of Traditional church, because it is often more restrictive and unaccepting of change.
Look on the web see what you can find, if you need any help let me know and I will help you look.
God bless.
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