I was not saved before I married, at 19...but I thought I was... So I did not have wisdom of any kind...
I'm 54 and married for

Not good at math...

Anyway,
UNDER NO CONDITIONS SHOULD A CHRISTIAN MARRY A NON-CHRISTIAN... MY MARRAIGE HAS BEEN FOR THE MOST PART HELL... THOUGH THERE ARE TIMES OF PEACE AND FUN... HE HAS NO MORAL COMPASS, HE DOES WHATEVER FEELS GOOD... WHETHER IT DEVASTATES ME OR NOT ...
NO POINT IN GOING FURTHER, I STAY FOR NOW BECAUSE IT IS THE LORDS WILL, FOR NOW...
The one I concentrate on is my 1st husband, Christ, He is everything I need in a husband and more, much, much, more... When its time to leave, He'll tell me, if it ever comes to pass...

I need prayer for this year... We are going to marraige counceling and I have started bringing up serious issues, concerning hubbies behavior... He blames me for all his behavior and grinds his teeth... Our counselor doesn't let him get by with it though...
Since last March hubbies been complaining about how angry he gets because of how I use the paper shredder, and turn off lights that are not being used at home and a variety of other non-sense...
I hope I've said enough to dis-illusion anyone, from marrying or even dating a non-Christian...