It is doable, but extremely stressful. When you are newly married, there is always a getting to know you period. This is a stressful enough period of time when the two of you are finding out all the things about each other that you thought you knew and suddenly realize you don't! Do you really want to add school schedules, finances, and every other stressor to the mix? Too much stress can put a great strain on a marriage.
Right now you may think that you are in love, engaged, and absolutely can not wait to get married. I think many of us have been at that point in life at least one time or another. Just because you feel that way does not mean that you should get married right away.
Anyhow, I am not going to say get married or don't get married right away. You just have to figure it out yourself. Go pray. Talk to your minister. Get extensive pre-marital counseling with your fiance. Your church pastor might offer this.
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