Another way to look at it, is how you are handling the physical aspect of your love. If you feel like it would be better to get married than wait because of the pressure and staying away from sexual sin, then I'd say, even though it would be harder in some areas, it's better than being out of God's will if that is a problem. Only you can decide.
If you are talking finances, then my question is, how have you done it so far? Are parents helping you out? You said you can't work. So, do you have loans out right now?
My son took out loans and when he graduated, he went to Korea and taught so he could pay his loans off. He taught for two years and couples can also do it. They pay for your airfare, room and board, and a good salary. But you have to check out the company and make sure they are financially secure.
Good luck.
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