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i dont think at all that my girlfriend is not in God's will. A few days before my GF and i went out on our first date, i was at church and we had a real spiritual service. I had one of the elders pray over me. She told me that i will never be the same after that day. And then a few days later, i asked my gf out and she was so happy to. EVERYONE i have talked to said that she is absolutely amazing. My mom, who is a strong christian, said she couldnt have asked for a better girl in my life. The only thing that had changed after that day at church was me starting to date my gf.

i have heard though that it is normal, in a long term relationship, to loose that "spark" that you had at the beginning. Relationships take a lot of work. I know i love her. i know i do, i just dont have the feelings spring out of me. I have tried doing things for her like making her a romantic dinner, buy her little i love you gifts, thought of her first before me, etc. im just hoping that when i get back on track with God, everything will fall back into place. I just cant imagine life without my GF.