Mark_18, I'm sorry your birthday ended up like that. I have been fortunate; I grew up in a non-drinking family, my friends didn't drink, and I have never had a drink of alcohol. As a consequence, it has never been a temptation for me. On the other hand, I have seen the hold it has had on others around me. I hope, and pray, that you will be able to control your consumption and avoid the pitfalls of immoderation or addiction. For me, it seems easier just not to indulge at all, but I don't impose that on others. I just don't want for you to have to struggle with the destructive potential of alcohol, that's all.
May God strengthen you and grant you wisdom and insight in all areas of your life in the coming year, may His joy permeate your soul and shine forth in your life. Amen.
I Cor. 6:12