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Originally Posted by chosen129
Being persecuted by the world is one thing but its another when the people persecuting you are the christians who attend your church that you look up to. Ever since ive started going to my current church of about 3 years ive been accused of many things from the congregation and i dont think i can handle it anymore, these people are supposed to be there for me and help me to not get into things that are bad for me, not create the things for me to get into. I am sick of being judged by them, im not perfect but im trying everyday to be more and more better. i wish they could just accept me for who i am. so in conclusion i would like to ask you how should i handle the persecution that im getting from the staff and friends of mine at my church?
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Before we all jump to conclusions here, I believe we need some more detail. You say you have attended this church for three years now? That is great! It's good to become involved with a church family. You say you have been "accused" of many things by the congregation. Be specific if you can so that we can offer the best advice. Are these accusations true? Is it an accusation or a helping hand? Often times when we are mired in our own troubles, we see the offers of help around us as offensive attacks on us. I'm not saying this is the case here, but I do pray you search your soul for truth in anything they may say to you. Are they mean about it? Condescending? What bad things are they "creating" for you to get into? Are they truly judging you? As in, are they saying "we are concerned because we see this behavior" or are they saying "you are going to hell because you are.....". There is a huge difference between the two. First ask yourself, are these people saying things to me because they love me and want to see me as a better person, or are they truly casting you into the pit of Hell? When you can answer these questions, as a pastor I would love to give you insight. I just need some more information. Bless you.