Hey, Welcome to the club
I didn't have many freinds through school, don't have many still now lol, except in Church. So I was lucky to not get drunk, an Im very shy.. I went out one night when I was 16 before I was saved... never been to a Bar, a curry house, a club or a lap dancing club (im very ashamed of that one) and done them in all in one night, they were all older than me, around 35+ to 45. I never got drunk though thankfully.
I thought where is the fun in going out drinking, and clubbing, getting drunk and if you got drunk enough end up waking up somewhere outside or in someones bed, (I didn't) but I dont see fun in that.
I enjoy a cold beer or some wine with a roast dinner or something, People have mixed views on weather you should drink alcohol or not.
Instead of going to a bar or club, why not go to a posh restaurant instead ?