In todays society and the path that most Public schools are choosing to take I think that "Home Schooling" can be more rewarding and by all means safer. My stepdaughter has been Home Schooling her four children ever since they were at the age of learning and they are doing very well. By the way the statistics for Home School children is very high.
You mentioned that you and your wife were giving up movies that you and she "love" because they reflect a negative light for your daughter. It seems to me that if these particular movies are giving you a bad feeling then they were probably not approved by Jesus. Let your heart be your guide. This is your child (a gift from God). You and your wife are going to do just fine. Here is a link that may be of a little interest to you.
http://heartofwisdom.com/one_needful_thing.html