Awww I wouldn't encourage anyone to never get married. I just think they need to make sure they are being honest with themselves and their partner before getting married. Do not sell God, or yourself, out for anyone. If someone cannot accept every part of you and your relationship with our Father then they aren't worthy. I myself have been married for a year and by the grace of God my husband and I have always been on the same page. I'm not saying any of it is easy but it's definitely worth working for.
From what I have learned from others, some of the biggest mistakes people make when getting married is doing it for the wrong reasons. A lot of people get married because they are afraid to be alone or because they need the constant companionship. That is just a temporary solution and reality will eventually set in. You should never marry someone because you want or need something from them, you should marry them because you want to do something for them. Does that make sense?
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