Both Pastor Gary and Banareth have made great point with which I agree 100%!
Only God knows this woman's heart and what her marriage was like with the husband she's divorcing. No one indeed should have to suffer through an abusive marriage and, in my opinion, abuse doesn't always necessarily mean physical abuse. It can be verbal, emotional, spiritual and all of those can have sometimes even more lasting reprecautions than physical abuse, unless that physical abuse is extreme! So, she will have to search her heart and recognize what is the true reason she's divorcing him and weather or not she has tried to get God's help in changing the situation before leaving. I don't believe if someone divorces they go to hell, but I also agree with what Banareth said about us being a disposable society!
Laura