GirlofFaith,
The fastest growing movement in Christianity today worldwide may be the house church. We hold that the congregational church is no more Scriptural than the episcapol model, which causes the community experience to be less meaningful and relevant, and even at times promoting abuse. I am with the "house church/whole church" part, and here is how I explain it.
http://www.loveofchrist.info/church/...itutional.html
If you are having problems with the congregational model, perhaps, you should consider this type church.
M Paul