I may not be qualified with what I am going through at the moment, but definitelypray about it. 11 years ago, I met my future wife in a bar. 2 months later she was pregnant with my daughter. 3 months after my daughter was born, we decided to get married exactly a year to the day we first met. I was a Godless heathen and didn't have belief in the Almighty or my Savior, but my wife began the process making sure we found a church home. She was the spiritual leader of the family, but I was baptized 7 years ago, though it was mainly due to peer pressure in the church and from my wife. I have slowly come to realize the importance of my role, but too late. She desperately wanted me to be the leader of the family, and I wasn't. The resentment and loss of love that has built up inside my wife due to this and other things she expected of me that I did not provide is now about to end my 10 years of marriage with her I'm afraid. Definitely pray for the mate that God has planned for you. I now find myself seeking God like no other time in my life, and my wife is running from Him, which is 180 degrees from the time we met.
Pray constantly about this, because it is one area you don't want to make a wrong choice. Trust me, there is no pain comparable....
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