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Originally Posted by violet
"Faking it" may have been the wrong words he used in reference to what he really meant? I say that because I believe when we lack self confidence that we need to practice behavior that attributes to confidence. Is that really faking it? Maybe, at first~
A person may slouch, talk quietly, avoid people, etc....If you are aware of these traits you can change them though you still may lack the confidence. A person can stand tall, smile more, talk a little louder, and make himself go in public more~
Practiced behavior then becomes habit and these specific habits can lead to a true confidence~
You should never change your personality; it is who you are, but ENHANCE it!  |
As I said, "Faking it" is a bad choice of words, but they are the words we are using here.
I still stand by what I said because you can't truly fake a confidence that isn't already hidden within you somewhere!
You are practicing to bring out the best from within you with practiced behavior~