I agree with the fine line theory! Sometimes I think it's a question of how much intent is there too. If a man looks at a woman for a second and thinks whatever thoughts he will but then moves on, no harm done. If he looks at another woman and not only thinks those little thoughts but starts thinking about how he can actually make those happen, then he has crossed the line. I think taking a quick look is harmless (or even a long look) as long as it's JUST a look.
(And reverse all of that..change man to woman and woman to man because I also think it goes both ways!)
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