08-11-2007, 10:22 PM
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Junior Member
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Australia
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Violet has given some excellent advice.
I know the scene, hehe, I was a shy introverted girl growing up, very insecure and afraid to really say "BOO" ....
The thing that really changed me was when I decide to challenge myself. I was so tired of being this way.... So, I decided to join the music team at church, then I started to worship lead..... scary at first.... but over a period of time I was so used to being up front before people that my confidence grew.
Another really good confidence builder is to read the scriptures . Read about who you are in Christ!!!! Go to your concordance and find all the scriptures that tell you the good things!!! like you are an overcomer, you are raised up with Christ! You CAN do all things through Christ who strengthens you!!!!
Gradually day by day , see yourself as the man you want to be in God, confident and sure in HIM...
I know as a female I would be so much more attracted to a guy who pursues holiness . Confidence is good but if it is a self confidence that has no room for God then it is a real turn off...
Confidence in God!!! now thats a turn on, lol...
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