I don't think that is true, I believe we all have to make our own decision for Christ, we were born alone and will have to exit stage left alone too and then face God all by our onesies. You can't please-explain to God what your spouse did in their life, they have to stand accountable for their own actions.
I'm sorry for the guys here. And may I just say that I feel the same about Christian guys. I never found a wonderful Christian guy in church. In fact, I found the opposite. And the few wonderful ones just weren't interested/already taken.
But then again, the non-Christian guys I meet are even...shall we say... "worse". (That's my way of looking on the bright side
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