Mark,
I really never felt this was an argument at all, as I understand we each have our own opinions.
I certainly am not arguing with Wordtime and I don't believe she is arguing with me.
She has been very gracious.
We have our different opinions and we are stating them and this is how we and others learn.
But you did bring up the end result is about following the Bible.
The Bible does say not to spare the rod.
I think these are important discussions if all they do is enlighten someone to an awareness of something they are seeking.
Blessings to you~