YellowJacket,
By the hurt I sense in your post, I think we can easily conclude that you do not feel respected by your wife. There is a wonderful book "Love and Respect" which covers the importance of a wife respecting her husband and a husband loving his wife.
I pray that God would give you a supernatural love for your wife. May this love be out of God's grace, not due to your wife earning this love. May it stem deep from the love your heavenly father has poured out on you.
I pray that God will enable you to speak to your wife and that she will have ears to hear. May her fears that drive her to manipulate and control, be placed in the hands of a loving God, who is not the author of fear. I pray that you can get to the root of her manipulation and controlling tendencies.
May God do a wonderful work in your family.
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