Yellowjacket,
I answered this thread and posted it and it vanished!
Read through some of the things here in the Marriage and Relationship topic.
I am afraid I have to agree with you because I see too many Christian women who are bossy and dominant with their husbands which is against the Bible.
Nothing against you personally but do not allow yourself to be intimidated any longer.
Put your foot down and do it in a Godly way.
If she does not want to comply then she is wrong.
I am not judging either one of you only telling you what the Bible says.
A wife is to be under her husband's subjection.
She is to be submissive to him.
And if they are both Christians then there is no problem because the love and respect between you two brings a perfect balance to the marriage.