Smellycat,
are we to do what our flesh desires or what God's word says?
There is a scripture in the Bible that says to avoid sin, pass by it, walk away from it.
We are to depart from sin.
There is enough joy in serving Christ and others that we don't need to go out to where sinners gather for their fun.
There are enough people starving to hear God's word right around your doorstep.
You don't need to go into a tavern or pub to look for them.
We are allowed joy and good times but we need to stand apart as Christians.
God said his people are a peculiar people, meaning we do stand apart in our actions, character, and behavior.