If you are telling me your wife works then you have no judgement from me, SC.
I had to work in our marriage in the beginning.
I waited tables, I worked in a dress department, I worked as an admit secretary for a hospital in Va.
Last, I drove a school bus in Fairfax county Va.
At that time in our lives I needed to.
Now I don't.
BUT there ARE many women who do NOT have to work but choose to to gain more material things instead of following God's word.
God knows our situations and judges accordingly.