I have to go with relationship on this one- the more time I spend with Him the more I see His nature revealed in me and consequently the more I act like Him-I am changed by His presence- the less time I spend with Him the more my flesh rises up and the rest is not so pretty- but I am just speaking from my personal expierience- drawing close to God, being filled , transformed and used for His Kingdom- there is just nothing to compare to it- your brother Larry