Hi Falyne~
youth group can be so different from church to church.
Our children belong to a youth group because I think it is wonderful, ministered by a young man I like and trust.
He spends time with the teenagers, teaching God's word, as a group, but takes his time to minister to individuals. also,
They provide many fun activies, as well.
They go to camp, out to eat, raise money, go on out-of-state trips, etc....
Find a group you are happy with. Don't give up if the first one isn't what you need or makes you uncomfortable.