You are WAY TO KIND brother- but thank you anyway- I think that scripture ties in nicely with these:
Isa 44:24 Thus saith the LORD, thy redeemer, and he that formed thee from the womb, I am the LORD that maketh all things; that stretcheth forth the heavens alone; that spreadeth abroad the earth by myself;
God has formed all things and we are no accident or exception- perhaps He has made us just the way we are for such a time as this
Rom 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
Rom 8:29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
Rom 8:30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
Rom 8:31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?
Rom 8:32 He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?
Those He foreknew He predestined- it would seem God knows all our choices before we make them and He is actively partcipating in the life of everyone and anyone who would have Him-He has been making plans for you and me since before there was a creation and is constantly working to bring us to the place of fully restored fellowship that we were created for- remember Jesus was the
"Lamb slain from the foundation of the world"- before there was a world you were the apple of God's eye and the Father, Son and Holy Ghost were already making provision for you!