I hear you beloved . As a retired nurse I ran accross that behaviour quite often so my patience was tried many times and many times I would have to ask the Lord for help .
But when it hits your own family it is even worse and my mom who is now with the Lord , had a stroke and she was never the same because of damage to the brain and she would constantly complain about her care and the nurses stealing from her or some one. She was never a lady like that ... very sweet and would not say anything about anybody so the stroke altered her mind. She loved her food before and the nursing home from what I could see had very good food . She even told me one day to shutup and that is when I knew it was not my mom as she never talked like that . So yes the Lord gives us patience to deal with so many heart wrenching experiences.
She even told the nurses that her family put her in the nursing home against her wishes and it was she who wanted to go there as she was staying with my brother before so , I know my dear when we get old it is not easy . I just hope and pray that I am never like that but one never knows.
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