07-24-2008, 10:35 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Toronto
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mellow
From personal opinion and also what God tells us is to give another person three strikes before leaving them alone. If someone you are with you suspect of cheating on you, you should be forgiving only up to three times.
Nobody likes to bud into your life when things are going wrong for you, since you said you are being attacked for being a liar. It seems the only time they do it is when you really are doing something wrong. Then people really love making a big scene and gossip about it. Because they are thankful that it wasn't them.
In other words, if someone is hurting you and saying things about you, expect no response from anybody. A lot of people don't have pity for good people.
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Mellow ,
I am sorry if I misinterpreted the" three strikes your out "phrase and that is why sometimes it is hard when you are not talking personally to the person. By all means when it comes to adultery , yes I could not tolerate that either. But in that case like others I would have to say three times is over the top. Sorry for the mixup . Please accept my apologies.
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