And I am not talking about being elaborate about talking to Him.
Be yourself.
I talked to God for the first time instead of just praying to Him, which really isn't holding a decent conversation with Him.
I never knew what a relaxing thing talking to God would be.
Talking to God is totally different from talking to a person. God doesn't ask mindless questions, or interrupts, or even makes those little "motions" to make you stop. He listens - 100%.
Believe me, it's the best thing you could do. If you find talking to your husband, friend, sister, brother, dog, cat, fish, sky whatever hard, go to God and tell Him.
You don't have to be all proper and cool about it, just be yourself. I'm sure God would like for us to be ourselves, right?
Tell Him how you feel exactly, even if it's hard to. You'll find that He's the BEST listener in the world.